Ran into an old buddy today, and was shocked by what I saw - he’s aged about 10 years since I last saw him, which was only a couple weeks ago. He was wandering around the alley near his home, looking disoriented. I immediately sensed something was wrong. When I got closer, I could see his face was gaunt, he looked thin and frail, his hair was matted and unkempt looking, and his clothes the same. None of which is normal for him. Then, talking with him, you could tell his speech was slurred and erraticly paced. All very disconcerting to me - he’s a guy I grew up with, have known and been friends with since we were little kids.
Here’s what he told me, I’m still trying to process the whole thing, and figure out what happened. He said he had a surfing accident, where he wiped out, and was pinned by the lip in a position that strained his leg, bending it in an unnatural position, and straining his back as well. He immediately became dizzy, and felt paralyzed. He held to his board, and floated in, unable to move much. Eventually, he got in, where his girlfriend, who was filming him, met him. It took him awhile, but he felt a little better, and was able to stand, carry his board, and make his way back to the car. He said a woman along the way said he looked so bad that she offered to carry his board for him.
He went to his girlfriend’s house, still feeling dazed, and looked for any signs of damage - there were none. But he felt bad all week, dizzy, weakened, and not himself. Then, taking a shower a week later (!), he noticed a HUGE black and blue bruised area all around his leg / hip area. It freaked him out. He had plans for a Jalama camping trip, with his girlfriend’s family, which he followed through with. He said he felt pretty crappy, but he went.
Then, when he got back, he started really feeling weird. Like he couldn’t think straight, couldn’t focus his mind to even organize his thoughts, or proceed with his daily activities. He’s a retired bachelor, who lives alone. He ran into a friend who told him he needed to see a doctor, and right away took him to an emergency care center. They did blood tests, which he’s awaiting results from. They scheduled an MRI of his brain, which he hasn’t had yet. And they told him he likely had a mini-stroke, as a result of all the bruise blood in his system.
Its a lot for me to try to process, really upsetting to see my buddy in this condition. Despite being nearly 60, he has always been active and strong, and surfs about once a week every week, been surfing for over 40 years.
Anyone ever hear of anything like this?
Here’s a picture of him taken recently