have you ever had your heart broken ?

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hi guys and gals,

off subject...........

i met a fantastic gal about my age.

she came into my life ..........a mess,past over for youth,destroyed,she has no idea how beautiful she was/is.........just a mess.

so in the mist ...........i made her aware of herself.............

i believe she,at first liked me,but in the goodness of my heart i knew i couldn't be with her.

so i showed her kindness and opened the world up to her.

i watched her blossum into a gem,a shinning star.

now she's a killer ,in a sense.

with confidence and power.

in these few months , helping her,,, transforming her................i fell deeply in love.

the tears run down my face as i write this.

i couldn't stand in her way.................so i told her to go out and find your true .....the one and only.

..............someone once said that i'd know it was the right person when i heard bells in my head..................

i never did...........not with anyone,,,,,never believed in it either,,,,,,til now.

now i know that in someway i have helped someone in a great way.

sorry for taking up your time.

if the mods want to can this...........i understand.

maybe the monk thing isn't so bad after all.

thanks for letting me bend you eyes alittle

herb

 

 

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Brother----------All your years of wisdom and you let this happen?    And people want to know why I use the word "Bitch" as an expletive so often.  My sympathy and empathy Herb.

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comes back to an ol sayin'

"you play with matches............you get burnt".

i'm feeling better now.

just coming to terms with it.........here...........helped greatly.

 

thanks mc

herb

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Gave up on women a long time ago. My best friend use to always say " If they didn't have Pu$$ies, they'd have bounties on there heads"....soo true, soooooo true.

So we started the He Mans Women Haters Club (HWHC), life is soo much simplier, plus we save tons of money.  traveling is a breeze....decorating the pad is easy, just bean bag chairs and a 72" 3D TV.  Got a cool Porsche with all the money I saved. And love is just a call away from craigslist!  Simple life, for a simple guy.

 

Sorry for all the sorrow, this too shall pass.

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even in the worst sits.........................

rezhead ,you make me laugh!

thanks

herb

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I'm not goin' for that Craigslist $#!t Rez.  I been flirtin' with the boutniful Latino chick down at the truckstop where I buy my Coronas latly.

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If you think you need a wife, just hire a cook and a maid.  You’ll stay in the black.

As my son says, paraphrased, “There’s something wrong with females. Sooner or later they all defy rationality.”

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Surfers don't make good husbands !! Women don't make good wives !!

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you know what i hate more than being dead last ?..............or not even being in the race/game at all ?....................being runner-up,pastover,2nd place,second string.

the good thing is................

........................................... at least i didn't fall to far...........................being i was already close to the deck to begin with.

most people in this situation would say,"why me"..............................you know what i say.......

"why not me"

i think i'll go hug my dogs,take them for a run.

i need a good surf session........................it's been tooo long.

herb

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Herb, Hermano, Perro de Amor, como nosotros. There is no race. No competion, no vying for . It is a meeting, a blending of two. Personalities meshing.You know this. There is no "one". There are many. They come - they go. When it's right they stay, and so do you. If you are settling and are miserable, what happens down the road?  All that is MUCH easier said than done. Hell, I haven't figured it out. I'm just another dope thinking; if I'm going to bring a woman into my life, then it better be the one in a million. I'd much rather live the uncomplicated life than always trying. I'd assume it is the same for the other side of the coin.

 

ps. BIG DAMN ASSUMPTION!! Haven't met one yet that didn't seem alien to me. I don't have any answers. If I saw ya, I'd buy you a beer and just....sit. Aloha.

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I still love you Herb.

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HERB...........G O   F I S H I N G ! ! !

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…hello McDing, what s a latino chick exactly?

a white-black-central american indian mix?

a Mediterranean gal? South Italy, Croacia, South France, South Spain, with all those white ethnics groups mixed with arabs centuries ago…

 

Im asking cause what seems to people say latinas where I live, that is supposed to be plenty of them…well, I never saw one…

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Hey Herb, same time last year I was smashed emotionally, god it sucked, so bad. I know what all those full stops you line up mean man. I still feel it, sometimes you meet someone you'll never forget. But i'm way happier now. 

When trying to cope at the time I read a lot of hippy an spiritual stuff, I got taros read and saw a pcshycic, I wrote some songs! All that did was waste money and time and dig me in deeper to a bad vibe.  Friends could see it, I couldn't. It may sound ridiculous but I started becoming more positive and fun again by doing a little quiet meditation everyday and doing a quick round of exercises and stretches as soon as I woke up. It's now a daily routine. When no woman is their for you, you gotta remember to nurture yourself. I ain't met my soulmate or had ms universe walk into my life but I'm having a laugh and a smile. I know how foreign that can seem when your slammed. Hang with your family and friends and keep surfing! 

Hope this doesn't sound like bull bro.

I would wish you better 2moro if I could herb.

Cheers-J

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Let me tell you about a guy named Bill and his girl.. In high school they went together for 3 and 1/2 years.Never had an arguement or fight. She was the perfect surfer girl, loved hanging out on the beach. They were the perfect couple. Everyone in school figured she would be with child before graduation. They had their whole life pland. Living in the coastal mountains in a small cabin, Surfin and hangin at the beach. Two dogs, two or three kids. But first had to get that military service out of the way. After basic training they would get an apartment were ever. Alas ! After basic there was a military A school and then orders to Vietnam. Life went on hold. About 3 months into a tour in Vietnam Bill got a letter from his girl. Nothing unusual about that he got one from her about every 4 days. But this one was different, Sitting on a sandbag outside a bunkerreading  a dear John (Bill) letter. Sorry, cant handle being alone every day waiting for you to come home. Not knowing if you might get killed or might hook up with some asian girl. Should I send you back the ring ? We will get together again when you get home !! Didn't work out so good. She got pregnant from Andy , Bills best friend. Andy was drafted into the army and went AWOL after basic training when he got orders for Vietnam. Andy supposedly joined Hells Angles and has never been heard from since. She had 2 more kids and ended up devorced living with her dad. Bill , Well he got angry and just wanted to kill. Pay back and all that He was blown up by a rocket in combat and was never normal again. Did 2 more years in the millitary ,high on Darvon and booze.After the military ,Bill went surfing.Bill has been surfing for a long,long time ! Bill never got a real job,Bill is still surfing and hangin out at the beach. Bill is still angry! Don't drop in on Bill !!

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Hey herb, sometimes when you surfing, its crap, but you keep turning up time and again. Why?, because sometimes things go your way, and you drop into a few screamers, and everything just goes your way. You remember those surfs forever. Relationships are similar, except you share those highs with someone else. Just like paddling out, it’s worth putting the effort in, even though sometimes you get flogged.

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P.S I agree with bill, go fishing!

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well from over here on my planet…,

you just found your compassion circuts

and they work just fine.

Girl?

Wombman?

they are all attractive

like puppies , new cars

glossy new boards,sunrises,

moon sets ,and thats what

their role in our lives is to react

to them all.

IF it is meant to be ,just try and stop it

from coming to pass.

the women have their zeniths and their bottoms

biorythmicly  love and relationships dock and sail on a regular

schedule. You may have had the best standing on the dock

waving g-bye to the big white cruise ship with the tallest

of all vollyball team members waving back.

 

The other circuit that is working is the romance circui

with this circuit in working order

the time for writing the sceenplay

is at hand.

…ambrose…

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howdy mcding,

i hope you mean latina chick ?

latino chicks, i heard, tend to have balls, broad shoulders and 5 o’clock shadow like most other macho latinos " )

cheers,

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Hi Herb,

When I hit rock bottom I

Ate well

ran 5mile each day

and stopped drinking,

surfed till i dropped

I basically feed and worked my body till i dropped.

Then I felt good, proud of my self…then down the toilet I go again.

ha.

good luck maybe a bit of soul searching. hey lucky you…? depends how you look at it.

:slight_smile: