i almost lost my wife tonight

just got back from the hospital..the one my wife works at..

some idiot ran a red light and t-boned her....she's pretty messed up,

and the car i gave her as a 10th yr anniversary gift is totaled

thank-god we moved to florida to be near family...

cause i'm kinda shattered ...because in my world

the sun rises and sets on her pretty little head...

and i don't know what i'd do without her...raising our girls..etc..

ya know guys and gals ..we have fun here, play rough, etc..

so i'd like to ask a small favor.play nice for one day...

because all the petty bickering is just that petty, when put into perspective...

and if my grammar, spelling, syntax is "correct"...for some of you

.you'll excuse me if i tell you to go fuck yourself

goodnight

Sorry to hear that Dansan, I hope she’ll be OK. Best wishes and prayers for her, you and your family.

I hope your wife has a speedy recovery my friend. Mahalo, Larry

hey dan- hang in there- we  are thinking of you. the rest of us: please don’t drink and drive and even when sober please drive careful. we all depend on you so we can make it home safe to our families.

steiny

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your wife dansan.

 

Dansan, I pray your wife recovers 100 percent.

May God bless you and your family with the gift of being whole again.

Harry

    Howzit dansan, It's times like this when your Swaybrothers are there for you if not physically then mentally and spiritually and I am so sorry to hear this news. I will pray for both you and your wife and may her recovery be short and painless. Aloha,Kokua

Thinking of you and your wife, Dansan, and wishing her a fast recovery. I can relate, as my father was killed (and my brother badly wounded) by some old idiot with only one eye working and loaded with plenty of drugs that he should never have taken all together. Not only alcohool is the problem. We ALL are part of it. The minute we put a foot in a car, behind the wheel, we are potential killers. Let’s not forget it.

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just got back from the hospital..the one my wife works at..

some idiot ran a red light and t-boned her....she's pretty messed up,

and the car i gave her as a 10th yr anniversary gift is totaled

thank-god we moved to florida to be near family...

cause i'm kinda shattered ...because in my world

the sun rises and sets on her pretty little head...

and i don't know what i'd do without her...raising our girls..etc..

ya know guys and gals ..we have fun here, play rough, etc..

so i'd like to ask a small favor.play nice for one day...

because all the petty bickering is just that petty, when put into perspective...

and if my grammar, spelling, syntax is "correct"...for some of you

.you'll excuse me if i tell you to go fuck yourself

goodnight

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Hello Dansan , I'm in the same boat as you.....There's alot of things in my life that are really "fucked up". I'm not the only one...other Swaylock members have pain too, Please contact me via pm....Cheryl almost died a few times....We're on the up swing now.....I try to stay low key with this stuff......Be strong my brother...work hard, pay the bills , you can get through this....

Ray

my sway family,

 

i cannot tell you enough how much your thoughts

prayers, amd well wishes me to me...

she's home now(typical nurse.."i wanna sleep in my own bed")

.that's  a good sign  ..when she's fiesty..

she's sleeping now..good old morphine...

x-rays/ct scans, etc came back negative...

i thought she broke her humerus, she's in pain..

neck back hips,hands, and face

broken nose, lacerations...

they had to irrigate glass out of her eyes and throat,

kids are in school, folks are over so i can take care of the '''details"..

highway patrol, told  me..if the impact  was 2 feet more forward on her side...

woulda been alot worse..

anyway..again..thank-you to all of you..

now..i think i gotta get some sleep myself...

 

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Dansan, Hang in there. Your Wife is home and you have Family near by. Those are all good things.  I hope she has a speedy recovery and a full recovery.

Heavy, heavy, heavy. She didn’t escape unscathed, but the upside is you still get more time with your wife.   You gotta be happy as hell about that.  

Prayers on the way, Dansan.  Hang in there.  It’ll take some time for the bones and such to heal.  She’ll need you to help her keep her spirit strong.  Mike

You dodged a bullet, brother…

Thoughts and prayers for you and your family… for a full and speedy recovery.

thanks brothers(and sisters too)..

took a quick nap..have to go to the towing company

get belongings, tags, take pics of damage...etc

ya know..yesterday was so good....weird..thern bad

i was working on my two new surf products(got the patents pending)

got to surf in the morning then the afernoon...dang was it cold...but wicked fun

got hit on by this charlie's angel chick(yeah i dated my self..b.1958)

from santa barbara...and i thought i had lost my looks/mojo..;-)

i tell thanks..but no..i am very happily married...

then  later on wife calls..has to work late at Mayo Clinic(OR Rn Mgr)

can i pick up the kids from school...i'm cool with it...we have dinner..

play ...read color..watch some spongebob..

then i get the call at &;30pm..and all hell broke loose..

 

but she is okay, and will heal....

i gotta go...again i appreciate you all!

Dansan,

 

Prayers said for you and yours. Nearly lost my Wife in Sept. of this year - the humor and even the bickering provided some relief - even just a few minutes at a time.

 

Hang in there!

DanSan, Prayers to you and your wife. By virtue of her calling as a nurse, She is an Angel on earth. For the life of me, I don’t know how they do it. She has obviously touched countless lives. God Bless All Nurses! We’ll pray for a full recovery. 

ps. The scariest person on the road is the one texting on a cell phone. Worse than drunk driving.

Best wishes for a quick recovery mate. Cars suck full stop.

really sorry to hear about the accident mate, all the very best and hope she recovers quickly....

I can relate as I lost my father when a dickhead ran a light and hit my Dad while on a motorbike, no excuses when fools do this and injure or kill innocent people.....

glad your family are around for support, all the best

your thoughts..prayers..everything.. thank-you all sway family

 

i just got back from the towing company..

i have no idea how she survived...the whole left side of the car is squashed in

if my 5yr had been in her seat..she'd be dead ...

they must be a serious guardian angel.action going on here....seriously

i worked for 15 yrs as a surgical technologist went to physician's asstant school at UCDavis,

was on the transplant/trauma/organ donor harvest team..so i've seen some really gnarley stuff..

but this ...i wasn't even close to ready for.this. i nearly puked...seeing the car..

my father-in-law.. a vietnam vet was shaking...

 

to all of you have lost love ones in this manner..

my sincerest sympathies go out you..

i can't even image...

 

again thanx..and if any of you are in the north florida area

living or visiting don't hesitate to contact me...anytime...