Ahmmmm… my time in college was a bit different, and that’s a long and ugly story we won’t go into now, but…
It’s about this job thing. See, you may well learn a trade with a job in high school, especially something that goes beyond bagging groceries or pushing a broom. And I strongly recommend that . But, with any luck, you’ll learn something more important: who you are.
Everybody has a balance that’s right for 'em, between work and play, responsibility and authority, running things and taking orders, working with people or running your own show. What you have a gift for and what you just don’t do well. Whats fascinating and what is slow torture. And you don’t find that out in school. Or surfing. Work at a real job shows you a lot of it.
Then, you can know something about yourself. Make intelligent, informed decisions about where your life is gonna go and not necessarily follow the herd from high school to college. I worked in one college for a few years, watching 19 year olds change majors every month and basicly throw away a lot of their time and somebody else’s money. And as much as anything else getting in everyone’s way.
On the flip side were the ones who had been out for a while and came back to school. More driven, pushing the system, finding things out. College is an information buffet, all you can swallow, and you pay the fee at the door. If you know what you want, you can aim for that and do a job of it.
My own suggestion is take a year or two and work between schools. Work at a real job, surf, screw off, whatever, and get a handle on who you are and what you want to do and perhaps what you can and can’t do. Then you won’t be spending a lot of time looking at the bottom of a beer glass and damn little else. And if you decide on doing something with your life that needs a degree, you’ll do more and better in less time. And lots of other good things…
Hell, after a little while, the school was paying me, and that wasn’t a bad deal at all.
hope that’s of use
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