As a whitewater guide, I pulled 3 out of rivers. 2 looked like one until we cut 'em loose…thought a rope tied around their feet would keep them near their (Sevylor) raft … until the raft flipped and went left around a rock & they went right. Water pressure held them there long enough that the 3rd person in their (one person) boat made it to shore. No idea how long she was there screaming. We did CPR until the FD showed up, not because it would do anything for them, but for her.
The other was long gone, but well preserved by mountain water.
More vivid than that was doing chest compressions as a brand-new EMT in Pueblo, CO, feeling the ribs snap, on a guy who was so dead the Dr. on duty thought he’d be good practice for us newbies…
A few years later, I was first on scene when a motorcyclist hit an F350 head-on. As doc said, the meat loses.
Last year, a truck belonging to a friend’s company took out 6 cars. 3 fatalities. He knew it was bad and called me, knowing I was close & would figure out a way to get there, and I went. The driver was in shock, a mom & her 12 year old in their minivan were decapitated by the truck’s trailer, and I was kind of pinned, trying to explain that I knew who’s truck it was. I’ll never forget that. Much worse than any of the others, especially since my wife & kids ride around in the same model minivan.
I told my wife, never drive along right next to a tractor-trailer. The height is just wrong.
It all sucks, but, at the same time, better them than me. Crass, maybe. Insensitive, yes. Unfortunate, for certain. But also true. And important to keep in mind if you want to go on sleeping.