A little name-dropping, of a sort....
You see, The Old Man was a prep school boy, place called Tabor Academy up here in Southeast Massachusetts. And what they have instead of 'head boy' or chief prefect or whatever is a position called 'Mate of the Schooner'...because they have a schooner, they do a kind of blue water sail training thing in addition to academics, and the best seaman of the class is made Mate of the Schooner.
Well, it's 1942 or so, and The Old Man is at a party in town here in his Academy uniform with the brass buttons and all, and this Great Big Guy sees him and asks what the hell he's dressed up as. The Old Man, a kid of 16 at the time, tells him;"Mate of the schooner Tabor Boy".
The Great Big Guy asks what his spot on the schooner was, and the Old Man tells him: foremasthead man. The Great Big Guy grills him on what a foremasthead man does and the Old Man tells him.
The Great Big Guy ( now joined by a really lovely woman) says "That's right"....it was Sterling Hayden and his first wife, Madeline Carroll. And Hayden had been a foremasthead man on a schooner. And not just any schooner, but on the Gertrude Thebaud for Capt. Ben Pine in the Fisherman's Cup races between fishing schooners and had been pretty much hand picked for that crew.
Hayden is usually written up as an actor who liked boats, but what he was was a helluva good seaman, dory fisherman, trading ship skipper and such who had sailed around the world before his 20th birthday, and that was what he was proudest of in his life. The acting was a joke to him, for the most part, a means to an end.
His books, there's but two of them. His autobiography:Wanderer and a novel called Voyage. Both genuinely written by him, no ghost writers, both written pretty well. Hayden was the kind of man who always had some pretty good books ( literally) in his seabag and loved good books.
I'd suggest Wanderer first and follow that up with Voyage. Neither is particularly small, both good reads, Wanderer is still in print and Voyage still available from Amazon.
And once you've finished with that, you could have a go at Bernard Moitessier's stuff and more, most definitely Joseph Conrad. The really good seamen, some of them write very well, and time working at sea can strip away a lot of the foolishness and pettiness that is everywhere ashore.
hope that's of use - be forewarned, running away to sea isn't as easy as it used to be.
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