FCS Fusion is far superior to their round plugs. Fusion was originally designed for installing into EPS foam and FCS spent considerable time before deciding to use a flange based system to distribute stress loads versus the round plug skin to skin connection.
Through the 1980's I researched and developed many approaches toward fortifying fin boxes that were orignally designed for surfboards then being installed into high performance sailboards. The amount of torque being transmitted from sails and mast down to the fin were blowing fin boxes out right and left. As we became better surf sailors, we were destroying boxes while getting 30, 40, and 50 feet of air off waves at places like Jalama, Hookipa, San Francisco Bay, and the Columbia River Gorge.
In another thread I go into great detail as to the many techniques we tried and eventually developed in finding a solution to this problem and what the inherent problems fin boxes had in those days.
Ironically, the skin to skin connection, coupled with the advent of a one part box (Chinook vs. Fins Unltd aka Bahne box) proved to be the superior approach and ultimate soluion.
Back to the case in point: FCS X2 plugs versus the FCS Fusion. While the X2 achieves a skin to skin connecion, that connection is substandard for a number of reasons. First the ring of reinforcement surrounding the plugs is not substantial enough to resist eventual cracking: either thru the deck glass particular when the leading edg eof the fin is hit, or when a fin experiences harsh lateral force thereby cracking a corner of the receiving slot that accepts the fin tabs. Look at the tab entry for the slots and just see how little material there is between the corners and the outside wall of the plugs. The installation of the X2 plugs is also time consuming, and labor intensive with an inherent risk of overheating the plugs due to exomthermic buildup. I repair a lot of them.
Now look at a Fusion cassette. They are light, one piece and easy to install in a quick and efficacious manner. No worries about setting these in with too hot a batch for most craftsmen. They have introduced high density foam around the base of the cassette underneath the flange and a slatted design allows some dispersion of stress through flex. 'Keys' weredesigned in the X2 FCS plugs for resin to interlock, with the plug, further strengthening the installation and to prevent turning. The cassette simply doesn't have this problem due to its design. The Fusion is prepped to accept paint if one chooses to incorporate that aspect into the installation, and the design is easily installed and fiberglassed over.
As far as your problem, I think it is largely as you surmise: you yourself stated you see evidence of hitting the leading of of the fin(s). This would result in the damage that you describe. And the force had to be considerable with a proper installation of the Fusion system. If you look at the physical nature of a surfboard fin, even a glassed on fin could be straight armed from a side position and snapped off. But if you were to try that straight on into the leading (or trailing edge for that matter) you would not displace the fin at all and only come away with damage to your hand. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to know that breaking a fin that is about 1/4" thick is a lot easier than trying to rip out one that is 4-1/2" long.
Both Fusion and the FCS plugs were designed with the idea that side force would break the tabs so you could simply replace the fin without having to repair the insert. Guess what? It hasn't worked out that way with the round plugs. What should have been the ultimate fin plug (FCS X2) didn't turn out quite up to snuff. Sure they take a lot, but from an engineering stand point they are substandard. The flange ends up working out better in actual apllication. I had one customer that rides a retro fish with RTM (Resin Transfer Molded) keel glass fins snap one off riding too close into shore. He told me "the Fusion sustained no damage. I went and bought another fin and went back out".
I will never put FCS round plugs in any board I do ever again. I'm absolutely blown away by still seeing the largest surfboard companies in the world sticking round plugs in their boards. Maybe they WANT themto break and have the board disintergrate sooner than later?
Your ultimate solution would be to have a system that allow the fin to release if hit hard from straight on, leading edge impact. If you do not want to change systems, try taking a fine hack saw blade or file and creating an intentional shear point line on the leading edge of each of your tabs on your front side fins. You will need to experiement a bit with this, but start by sawing the line right below the actual fin (picture the line being cut above the grub screw) and try say, 30% of the tabs being cut. I think you will still have substantial enough strength for side pressure w/o the tab breaking. Or maybe even g closer to 50% of the tab. Then when you hit your leading edges of your fins in those hefty barrels you love, the fins may just snap w/o any damage to your Fusions. If you don't want to do this. Just stick the leading edge fin in snugly with some scotchtape for a snug but not screwed in fit.
Then go surfing.