Well, its been just over a year now since I began my retirement life with hip replacement surgery, and its been a huge turning point in my life, in some ways.
They say growing old ain’t for sissies, and the older I get, the more I understand that. I’m 64 now, and 65 is coming up quick.
First of all, I should say that I’m very glad to have my new pain-free hip, and I’m getting back out in the surf now without any issues. But its been a journey to get to this point. For one thing, I only made it out in the water maybe 4 times in the entire year following my surgery.
Even tho I was up and around quickly, and got active right away, the trauma to my hip muscles was far greater than I had imagined, and there were other issues, like not sleeping well. I don’t know why that became an issue - researching it, its not uncommon following major surgery, and no one seems to know why. Even now, more than a year after my surgery, I seldom sleep through the night, even tho sleep was not an issue prior to the surgery. I had an allergic reaction to some medication following surgery that had me broken out in hives all over my back. I also pulled my iliotibial band twice, and both times ended up in excruciating pain, and back on crutches for awhile. I’ve also had oral surgery, and some gastrointestinal issues to deal with.
And I was doing some repairs to my mother in laws roof, standing on her patio, when it gave way and tumbled to the ground, taking me along with it. The cat scan showed no broken bones or damage to my prosthetic hip, but it also revealed my other hip is in bad shape, and so is my spine (although the doctor was amazed that I have no pain). So all that combined to keep me out of the surf pretty much, until recently. Now I’m trying to get out once a week, but not always succeeding.
I wouldn’t have believed it before, but I now know that complete hip surgery recovery can take as long as 2 - 3 years. Meaning that you might feel good after several months, but the bone has to grow and attach itself solidly to the implant, and that takes a year. And if you feel good after a year (which I do), the progress should continue another year anyway, so my hip should be better still in another year.
Physical therapy was not particularly beneficial to me, although I’m sure it must have done some good. I went through several bouts, because I just did not feel healed yet each time, and my doctor was willing to write me a prescription which my insurance honored. But it mostly left me feeling worse instead of better, and sometimes I couldn’t even walk for days after a session.
I finally got frustrated with bout after bout of physical therapy, and went and signed up for a personal trainer at my gym (out of my own pocket, since my insurance refuses to recognize this as a valid therapy). And wow, what a difference. I wish I had done this from the start. My trainer has a physical therapy background, with a focus on strength and fitness training. I think the problem with physical therapy as the doctor prescribed is that it is only aimed at healing the hip area. Whereas, during the years of osteoarthritis leading up to my surgery, my entire body was impacted. My surgeon said my entire body was beginning to deform in response to the deteriorated hip joint, and the way it impacted my movement, especially my walking.
So once I started focusing on whole body strength and fitness, including pool time, instead of just torturing my hip joint, I began to feel immediate improvement. My trainer uses a foam roller, and that has been great for my iliotibial band issues - why didn’t the physical therapist tell me about this? The physical therapist also never mentioned massage of the surgery area, but I now know that is a big factor in healing also.
The gastrointestinal issues were triggered I think as a result of the antibiotics I was prescribed, they seemed to have a very negative impact on my digestion. But the problems have probably been building up for a long time prior, since I have had frequent antibiotic prescriptions over the years for various things, and they always left my digestion worse off. I have had to educate myself about cleansing and detox of the GI tract. I have fasted several times, once for as long as 7 days, as a result of feeling sick, and cleansing my intestines of parasites and engine sludge built up.
So where I’m at now, is after all this, is I am working out at the gym several times a week, doing pushups and situps on an almost daily basis, intermittent fasting (only eating between the hours of 10 a.m. and 6 p.m.), and trying to cut back on carbs and sugar, and eat the healthiest I have ever eaten. I’m down 20 lbs. from my heaviest weight, with another 5 to go, as a goal. The less weight on my hip, the better. Last surf session I felt the strongest I have in ages. My hip feels good, although I can still feel some weakness there, and some stiffness.
No one gets out of here alive, and its not about adding years to your life, its about adding life to your years. I’m just not ready for the rocking chair yet, and I know you guys, fellow surfers, understand where I’m coming from, even tho some people (like my physical therapist) act like I’m nuts for setting the bar so high for my recovery (lots of people seem to think if you can walk around with or without a cane, you’re good enough, and stop worrying about the rest)
And oh yeah, there is one more silver lining to this cloud, and that is my handicap license plate. I can park all day in a metered spot without a ticket. I can legally use those mostly wasted handicap spots everyone covets. And I can park for free in the handicap spot at most beach parking lots. Which is funny to me, cuz my wife and I used to laugh when we’d see a handicap license on a vehicle with a surfboard on top, and now I am that guy. Shameless about it, too, lol.